So, you are sad

We don’t know in advance how sad you are. This might be easily fixable and it might be long-term fixable, but it is fixable.

  • First, we’re going to make sure that physically we are on the right page.
    • 1L water (sad people take on a lot of carbs and little water, let’s flush the system and get a big poo started)
  • Next, remember these things
    • Honesty.
      • All stress comes from a lie.
      • But, under stress people make things up.
  • Positivity exercises:
    • 20 good things that have happened recently.
    • Deep breath.
    • (you won’t want to do this before the 20 things) Now, How is this feeling a gift?
  • Try working again for 1 hour.
  • Run/exercise
  • If still sad.
    • Tell people.
      • Message a couple of friends first
      • Put a message on social media. Which should be at this point “I’m having an emotional day and am finding it hard to concentrate”. Tell people soon so it’s NOT a surprise if you need/want support later.
    • Brainstorm possible causes:
      • Who are you angry at?
      • Where is the lie?
    • Try working for 1 hour
    • If still sad.
      • Get in car. Go and buy pens and paper and then go to a coffee shop. Put everything down on the page.